TakeAway: Odds are that you won’t keep your New Year’s resolutions, but it’s worth trying and there are some “tricks of the trade”.
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WSJ: A Cheat Sheet for Keeping Resolutions, Dec. 29, 2009
If you are making a New Year’s resolution you would like to keep, keep in mind that only about 19% of people who make them actually stick to their vows for two years.
But those discouraging statistics mask an important truth: The simple act of making a New Year’s resolution sharply improves your chances of accomplishing a positive change—by a factor of 10.
Among those people who make resolutions in a typical year, 46% keep them for at least six months.
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Successful resolution-keepers make specific, concrete action plans to change their daily behavior. Here are the principles they follow:
• Take one step at a time. Too many people “make large resolutions, such as losing 40 pounds by March, that are just too hard to accomplish.” Most people do better if they break big goals into small steps. After 30 days, small changes become habit, adding up gradually to an overhaul.
• Get a little help from your friends. Enlist like-minded friends to help. Make a five-minute phone call every day to a friend who has agreed to keep the same resolution. That interaction with another person keeps it alive and keeps us sharing and listening.”
• Change your environment. Another catalyst of change is to alter your surroundings to support your new behavior. Tracking your progress by recording or charting it also helps.
• Announce your intentions. Tell friends; publish the intention on a blog; anything !
• Figure out your attachment to bad habits. Psychologists advise figuring out what your bad behaviors do for you and finding healthier substitutes. If you overeat to ease stress, for example, start practicing deep breathing or meditation.
• Expect setbacks. People who fail at resolutions tend to criticize or blame themselves for slip-ups. In contrast, successful resolution-keepers brush off the inevitable setbacks and got quickly back on track.
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